Last week over at Bed, Bitch and Beyond blog, we talked about the joy of no sex. In this week’s post, it’s all about the not-boyfriends.
I’ve simply never bought into the idea that all sex must live up to the shining heteronormative ideal of candlelight and roses and true love (which, of course, will progress naturally to an engagement ring and a poufy white dress.) Now, I was always told growing up that “sex is what you do when you love someone.” Well, yes. But also…no. Fun sex with your friends has its place too, especially during dry spells between relationships, which is why my friend Jill often refers to them as “the dick in the glass case” (imagine a fire alarm: In Case of Horny Emergency, Break Glass and Grab Dick.)
Read on for more about the joy of casual sex and not-boyfriends, and why I hate He’s Just Not That Into You.