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A Bitch’s Work Is Never Done

Posted by BeckySharper in Thoughts, Anger, Assweasels, Be A Bitch, Sexual Harassment, Travel on Dec 22, 2009, 8:37am | 16 comments

Yesterday, while on a walking tour of the spice market in Old Delhi, I punched a guy who groped my ass on a crowded sidewalk. I only got him in the arm, but he dropped the package he was carrying and scurried away, which made me feel somewhat better.

Our tour guide, a  motherly, middle-aged lady in a sari and bindee, nodded approvingly and said, “It’s a shame he moved so fast or you could have hit him right in his spot.”

16 Responses to “A Bitch’s Work Is Never Done”

  1. mischiefmanager says:
    December 22, 2009 at 8:53 am

    Go, Becky!

    I’ve heard that India is not a friendly place for women, especially women alone in public. I’ll be interested to hear if you find this to be the case.

  2. ImTheMarigold says:
    December 22, 2009 at 9:57 am

    Oh hell yes! Well done!

  3. Endora says:
    December 22, 2009 at 10:55 am

    Well done, indeed!

  4. JetGirl says:
    December 22, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    Did anyone pick up the package he dropped?

  5. Preeti says:
    December 22, 2009 at 1:51 pm

    Ah good ol’ India, my birthplace and the land of so many paradoxes. Hope it treats you better than this from here on out!

  6. rodriguez says:
    December 22, 2009 at 2:26 pm

    he dropped his package to protect his package

    Go Becks!

  7. Pilker says:
    December 22, 2009 at 3:12 pm

    I adore India. And I’ve never been so well-treated by complete strangers.
    But there was this one guy,…

    Walking in Old Delhi, and me in a modest salwaar kameez, a man coming towards me in the narrow lane grabbed my breast so hard as he passed me that I shrieked and it hurt so much I saw stars. Immediately, an older Muslim man with a long beard who had witnessed this ran after him, took off his shoe and started beating him. Another man nearby shouted “hit him for me, too!” Instant justice – just add shoe!

  8. Nepenthe says:
    December 22, 2009 at 4:21 pm

    Well, Pilker, nothing says “slut” like a salwaar kameez.

  9. Nepenthe says:
    December 22, 2009 at 4:22 pm

    The fake html tag didn’t take. That was sarcasm, for the record.

  10. Mackey says:
    December 22, 2009 at 6:44 pm

    Go Becky!

  11. Christina says:
    December 23, 2009 at 12:32 am

    Well done!

    I hope that if that ever happens to me, I’ll be quick enough to get a punch in too– aim for the “spot”!

  12. TVille says:
    December 23, 2009 at 1:14 pm

    Good for you! And the guide’s response is close to priceless.

  13. Spark says:
    December 23, 2009 at 8:59 pm

    Oh, how I love this image of Becky traveling the world, (literally) kicking ass and (figuratively) taking names… Happy holidays, harpies and friends! Here’s to another year of being a bitch.

  14. rainy_day says:
    December 25, 2009 at 11:41 pm

    oh, this story is a lovely present for Christmas! go becky!

    I once punched a guy, in the face, for groping me in a bar. As I told my bff “it was my proudest feminist moment.”

  15. A Harpy’s Progress: India - The Pursuit of Harpyness says:
    January 10, 2010 at 9:57 am

    [...] you about being a woman traveling in India, I can say that I never felt like I was in any danger. The groping incident pissed me off, but it was not repeated in the two weeks I was there. I took the usual [...]

  16. Karmayogi says:
    January 11, 2010 at 12:55 am

    I would like to apologize for the despicable encounter you had in my country. Though I am aware that my apology would do nothing to undo this disgraceful act, I’d like to assure you that the type of people you encountered is actually a minuscule minority though they often tend to get more attention than they deserve, though not completely unwarranted, considering that such news would prompt authorities to get stricter with these miscreants.

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