If your son is starting a frat, it’s vital to have this talk with him, so he can be a leader on rape-prevention among the members. These young men need a leader, and you can be the one!

So does a mothers but you can do your best! A good foundation from the family helps!

Thank you also MM. I’ve just been informed he’s helping start up a fraternity on his new campus too, one that was SHUT DOWN 3 years ago for violations. I was shy about these things, where did ‘shy’ go? I’ll try to talk to him, though fathers influence seems to wane as the years go by.

A couple of weeks my mom asked me if I ever don’t feel safe living alone, and I told her that safe doesn’t have anything to do with it, I feel like I have been very lucky.

I can honestly say that it was never actively in my mind until it happened. I am thankful I was able to work around the thoughts that somehow it was my fault. Should I ever choose to have children be it boy or girl I will be bringing this up. Awareness starts in the house. My family failed in pretending that this doesn’t happen and not bringing it up. It is everyones problem.