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		<title>By: bellacoker</title>
		<link>http://www.harpyness.com/2010/04/06/the-dilemma-of-being-catholic/comment-page-2/#comment-25300</link>
		<dc:creator>bellacoker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 02:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@Endora:

Thanks, I really enjoyed The Golden Compass, etc. I will happily put that one on my list.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Endora:</p>
<p>Thanks, I really enjoyed The Golden Compass, etc. I will happily put that one on my list.</p>
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		<title>By: mischiefmanager</title>
		<link>http://www.harpyness.com/2010/04/06/the-dilemma-of-being-catholic/comment-page-2/#comment-25289</link>
		<dc:creator>mischiefmanager</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 21:52:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@metatroll:  No, I&#039;d be perfectly ready to criticize marriage practices in rural India, to the extent that they have an impact on the society.  It&#039;s no different than criticizing female genital mutilation.  I&#039;m a lot less concerned with what people believe than with what they do.  I&#039;m quite willing to bear the cry of &quot;privilege&quot; when what I&#039;m saying attacks a practice that hurts women.  Wrong is wrong, whether the Chief Rabbi (or both of them), the Pope or a tribal leader does it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@metatroll:  No, I&#8217;d be perfectly ready to criticize marriage practices in rural India, to the extent that they have an impact on the society.  It&#8217;s no different than criticizing female genital mutilation.  I&#8217;m a lot less concerned with what people believe than with what they do.  I&#8217;m quite willing to bear the cry of &#8220;privilege&#8221; when what I&#8217;m saying attacks a practice that hurts women.  Wrong is wrong, whether the Chief Rabbi (or both of them), the Pope or a tribal leader does it.</p>
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		<title>By: baraqiel</title>
		<link>http://www.harpyness.com/2010/04/06/the-dilemma-of-being-catholic/comment-page-2/#comment-25281</link>
		<dc:creator>baraqiel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 19:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@metatroll - Well, now I&#039;m a little confused.  For example, you in your comment conflated race and nationality and yet doing so seems to be one of your criticisms of others (&quot;Discussions of Catholics in America tend to ignore the large number of non-white and non-English-speaking Catholics.&quot;).  I explained to you my personal reasoning regarding why I use different standards for people in different situations and your response was to say that you &quot;don’t think the reluctance to criticize certain religions is just about options and circumstances.&quot;  Well...personally I don&#039;t feel any reluctance to criticize any given religion, but I just said exactly why I&#039;m reluctant to criticize certain religious people.  

Moreover, I&#039;ve actually seen a fair number of articles talking about marriage practices in rural India, especially regarding to how they relate to hygiene standards.  And in that example, you seem to be saying that being told to &quot;check your privilege&quot; would be a bad or invalid response whereas you end  your comment with an assertion that feminists are reluctant to criticize &quot;certain religions&quot; due to privilege.  So, at this point I&#039;m not really sure what your complaint is.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@metatroll &#8211; Well, now I&#8217;m a little confused.  For example, you in your comment conflated race and nationality and yet doing so seems to be one of your criticisms of others (&#8220;Discussions of Catholics in America tend to ignore the large number of non-white and non-English-speaking Catholics.&#8221;).  I explained to you my personal reasoning regarding why I use different standards for people in different situations and your response was to say that you &#8220;don’t think the reluctance to criticize certain religions is just about options and circumstances.&#8221;  Well&#8230;personally I don&#8217;t feel any reluctance to criticize any given religion, but I just said exactly why I&#8217;m reluctant to criticize certain religious people.  </p>
<p>Moreover, I&#8217;ve actually seen a fair number of articles talking about marriage practices in rural India, especially regarding to how they relate to hygiene standards.  And in that example, you seem to be saying that being told to &#8220;check your privilege&#8221; would be a bad or invalid response whereas you end  your comment with an assertion that feminists are reluctant to criticize &#8220;certain religions&#8221; due to privilege.  So, at this point I&#8217;m not really sure what your complaint is.</p>
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		<title>By: metatroll</title>
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		<dc:creator>metatroll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 19:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;b&gt;@mischiefmanager:&lt;/b&gt;

&lt;i&gt;Anyone *can* criticize anything.&lt;/i&gt;

If that&#039;s true anywhere, it&#039;s true on the internet. 

All major religions are patriarchal and sexist to some degree and open to feminist criticism, at least in theory. In actual discussions, different religions receive different amounts and types of criticism. My comment reflects these patterns as I have seen them. Certainly, no one is consciously following any taxonomy. 

&lt;i&gt;But if Catholics then decide that they can control women and prevent them from getting needed health care, for instance, then I feel like it’s fair game for everyone to comment on it.&lt;/i&gt;

You probably won&#039;t get many negative responses in any feminist forum by criticizing the Vatican&#039;s global policies on reproductive rights. If instead you complained about marriage practices in rural India, you might be told to &quot;check your privilege&quot;, even if you complained on health grounds.

&lt;b&gt;@baraqiel:&lt;/b&gt;

&lt;i&gt;metatroll, you seem to have conflated nationality and race in your statement&lt;/i&gt;

Yes, my categories are vague. Discussions of religion in the West often conflate nationality, race, culture, and sect. Islam, Hinduism, and Buddhism are often addressed monolithically. Discussions of Catholics in America tend to ignore the large number of non-white and non-English-speaking Catholics.

&lt;i&gt;...sometimes, a problematic choice is the only choice available.&lt;/i&gt;

I don&#039;t think the reluctance to criticize certain religions is just about options and circumstances. I think it relates to deeper issues within feminism such as race and privilege.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>@mischiefmanager:</b></p>
<p><i>Anyone *can* criticize anything.</i></p>
<p>If that&#8217;s true anywhere, it&#8217;s true on the internet. </p>
<p>All major religions are patriarchal and sexist to some degree and open to feminist criticism, at least in theory. In actual discussions, different religions receive different amounts and types of criticism. My comment reflects these patterns as I have seen them. Certainly, no one is consciously following any taxonomy. </p>
<p><i>But if Catholics then decide that they can control women and prevent them from getting needed health care, for instance, then I feel like it’s fair game for everyone to comment on it.</i></p>
<p>You probably won&#8217;t get many negative responses in any feminist forum by criticizing the Vatican&#8217;s global policies on reproductive rights. If instead you complained about marriage practices in rural India, you might be told to &#8220;check your privilege&#8221;, even if you complained on health grounds.</p>
<p><b>@baraqiel:</b></p>
<p><i>metatroll, you seem to have conflated nationality and race in your statement</i></p>
<p>Yes, my categories are vague. Discussions of religion in the West often conflate nationality, race, culture, and sect. Islam, Hinduism, and Buddhism are often addressed monolithically. Discussions of Catholics in America tend to ignore the large number of non-white and non-English-speaking Catholics.</p>
<p><i>&#8230;sometimes, a problematic choice is the only choice available.</i></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think the reluctance to criticize certain religions is just about options and circumstances. I think it relates to deeper issues within feminism such as race and privilege.</p>
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		<title>By: BeckySharper</title>
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		<dc:creator>BeckySharper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 17:55:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@baraqiel: Well-put. To say that Catholics--of whatever race or nationality--in the developing world have the same options as Western, urbanized Catholics is to fundamentally ignore vast gap in situation/choice/privilege that exists between ALL PEOPLE in the developing world and the industrialized world, regardless of religion.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@baraqiel: Well-put. To say that Catholics&#8211;of whatever race or nationality&#8211;in the developing world have the same options as Western, urbanized Catholics is to fundamentally ignore vast gap in situation/choice/privilege that exists between ALL PEOPLE in the developing world and the industrialized world, regardless of religion.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicholas Law</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicholas Law</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 17:31:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry for double posting a continuation, but I didn&#039;t finish reading the older response and have gotten more out of the thread now.

I am absolutely bewildered by people whose lives and essence of being are so intertwined with one particular religion.  Having grown up with an Athiest father (who practices traditional Chinese Animism) and a mother who was a non practicing Thai Buddhist while attending a private Italian Catholic school in Thailand, I was extremely confused about my religious identity but I was also able to take the good part of all of them and do my little adolescent mishmash.

Definitely, I felt lonely to not truely belong to any larger spiritual, but I had Buddha, Saint Dominic (the school&#039;s patron saint, Saint Don Bosco (his teacher) and god by my side.

As I grew up, that spiritual loneliness persisted as I went through a nonpracticing Wiccan Agnostic phase, until this moment where I consider myself an Agnostic practicing Buddhist with no denomination.

I think the question is so much simpler when it comes to Buddhism because it does not in anyway define one&#039;s relationship with &quot;god(s)&quot;, though it might help shine a light on the true nature of god but that&#039;s definitely not its stated purpose.

As to community, yes I do feel that pang of spiritual loneliness or Nihilism sometimes, but I have a loving political &amp; personal community which can often reach a level of spirituality I&#039;ve never felt with the churches and the temples; I no longer see organized religion as significant to human life, except for the art it produces.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry for double posting a continuation, but I didn&#8217;t finish reading the older response and have gotten more out of the thread now.</p>
<p>I am absolutely bewildered by people whose lives and essence of being are so intertwined with one particular religion.  Having grown up with an Athiest father (who practices traditional Chinese Animism) and a mother who was a non practicing Thai Buddhist while attending a private Italian Catholic school in Thailand, I was extremely confused about my religious identity but I was also able to take the good part of all of them and do my little adolescent mishmash.</p>
<p>Definitely, I felt lonely to not truely belong to any larger spiritual, but I had Buddha, Saint Dominic (the school&#8217;s patron saint, Saint Don Bosco (his teacher) and god by my side.</p>
<p>As I grew up, that spiritual loneliness persisted as I went through a nonpracticing Wiccan Agnostic phase, until this moment where I consider myself an Agnostic practicing Buddhist with no denomination.</p>
<p>I think the question is so much simpler when it comes to Buddhism because it does not in anyway define one&#8217;s relationship with &#8220;god(s)&#8221;, though it might help shine a light on the true nature of god but that&#8217;s definitely not its stated purpose.</p>
<p>As to community, yes I do feel that pang of spiritual loneliness or Nihilism sometimes, but I have a loving political &amp; personal community which can often reach a level of spirituality I&#8217;ve never felt with the churches and the temples; I no longer see organized religion as significant to human life, except for the art it produces.</p>
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		<title>By: baraqiel</title>
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		<dc:creator>baraqiel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 16:51:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of people have brought up the idea that those of us who are criticizing European and American people who stay in the Church would not criticize people of color from developing nations (metatroll, you seem to have conflated nationality and race in your statement -- I&#039;m trying to pin down where exactly you&#039;re identifying this dynamic).  I&#039;d like to address that.  Personally, I would not criticize people in developing nations for loyalty to the Church, so in this sense those of you who are making this criticism are correct.  However, I think there are some important distinctions to be made here.  If a Catholic school is the only school within 50 miles of your house and you choose to send your children there, that&#039;s a different choice than deciding on the local Catholic school over the local public school or over secular private schools.  If you&#039;ve grown up in a place where a Catholic priest is literally the only authority on the outside world and is the most knowledgeable person in the community, obviously rejecting the Church would mean something different than it does in most of America, where everyone with an internet connection can be an authority on anything.

It&#039;s possible to recognize that a choice is problematic even as one recognizes that sometimes, a problematic choice is the only choice available.  In fact, that is true much of the time.  I think that we can talk about making responsible and educated choices while recognizing that sometimes the resources aren&#039;t available to enable those choices to be made.  To properly evaluate the ethics of someone&#039;s actions, it is necessary to understand what other choices they could have made.  It seems to me to be the case that in the developed world, people generally have more viable choices regarding the Church, and this is why I hold citizens of developed nations to a higher standard regarding their relationships with the Church.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of people have brought up the idea that those of us who are criticizing European and American people who stay in the Church would not criticize people of color from developing nations (metatroll, you seem to have conflated nationality and race in your statement &#8212; I&#8217;m trying to pin down where exactly you&#8217;re identifying this dynamic).  I&#8217;d like to address that.  Personally, I would not criticize people in developing nations for loyalty to the Church, so in this sense those of you who are making this criticism are correct.  However, I think there are some important distinctions to be made here.  If a Catholic school is the only school within 50 miles of your house and you choose to send your children there, that&#8217;s a different choice than deciding on the local Catholic school over the local public school or over secular private schools.  If you&#8217;ve grown up in a place where a Catholic priest is literally the only authority on the outside world and is the most knowledgeable person in the community, obviously rejecting the Church would mean something different than it does in most of America, where everyone with an internet connection can be an authority on anything.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s possible to recognize that a choice is problematic even as one recognizes that sometimes, a problematic choice is the only choice available.  In fact, that is true much of the time.  I think that we can talk about making responsible and educated choices while recognizing that sometimes the resources aren&#8217;t available to enable those choices to be made.  To properly evaluate the ethics of someone&#8217;s actions, it is necessary to understand what other choices they could have made.  It seems to me to be the case that in the developed world, people generally have more viable choices regarding the Church, and this is why I hold citizens of developed nations to a higher standard regarding their relationships with the Church.</p>
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		<title>By: mischiefmanager</title>
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		<dc:creator>mischiefmanager</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 16:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@metatroll:  Wait, what?  

Anyone *can* criticize anything.  Whether every spiritual movement needs or deserves to be criticized on feminist grounds is another question.   I must admit that I&#039;ve never seen your taxonomy in practice by anyone. 
 I think we also have to distinguish between doctrine and practice.  Criticizing a religion&#039;s doctrine without a thorough knowledge of its belief system as a whole can be offensive.   But criticizing the religion&#039;s behavior, which can and often does have wider ramifications, is a different story.  If Catholicism wants to establish a male-dominated doctrine and internal hierarchy and Catholic women are okay with that, it&#039;s none of my business.  But if Catholics then decide that they can control women and prevent them from getting needed health care, for instance, then I feel like it&#039;s fair game for everyone to comment on it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@metatroll:  Wait, what?  </p>
<p>Anyone *can* criticize anything.  Whether every spiritual movement needs or deserves to be criticized on feminist grounds is another question.   I must admit that I&#8217;ve never seen your taxonomy in practice by anyone.<br />
 I think we also have to distinguish between doctrine and practice.  Criticizing a religion&#8217;s doctrine without a thorough knowledge of its belief system as a whole can be offensive.   But criticizing the religion&#8217;s behavior, which can and often does have wider ramifications, is a different story.  If Catholicism wants to establish a male-dominated doctrine and internal hierarchy and Catholic women are okay with that, it&#8217;s none of my business.  But if Catholics then decide that they can control women and prevent them from getting needed health care, for instance, then I feel like it&#8217;s fair game for everyone to comment on it.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicholas Law</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicholas Law</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 16:17:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[With posts like this and knowing about progressives&#039; daily struggle with their individual organized religion, I must say I&#039;m quite happy to have grown up under the Buddhist tradition.  True, The notion of ritual, culture, tradition and history is strong within any particular Buddhist tradition, but it is very easy to separate the spiritual religion our of the organized religion.  

IM(Undereducated)O true Buddhism, as in the Buddhism created by Buddha when he reached enlightenment was a practice and not an organized religion; he did not want any structure, scriptures or dogmas: just truth, some guidelines and practice practice practice; so when I&#039;m fed up with the Patriarchal Thai Buddhist hierarchy, I can just practice on my own or with my friends and never ever worry about the monks and their cohort.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With posts like this and knowing about progressives&#8217; daily struggle with their individual organized religion, I must say I&#8217;m quite happy to have grown up under the Buddhist tradition.  True, The notion of ritual, culture, tradition and history is strong within any particular Buddhist tradition, but it is very easy to separate the spiritual religion our of the organized religion.  </p>
<p>IM(Undereducated)O true Buddhism, as in the Buddhism created by Buddha when he reached enlightenment was a practice and not an organized religion; he did not want any structure, scriptures or dogmas: just truth, some guidelines and practice practice practice; so when I&#8217;m fed up with the Patriarchal Thai Buddhist hierarchy, I can just practice on my own or with my friends and never ever worry about the monks and their cohort.</p>
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		<title>By: rodriguez</title>
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		<dc:creator>rodriguez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 15:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[awesome becky]]></description>
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