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Quick One: Open Letter to Judge Robert Dewar

Posted by Marie Anelle in Thoughts, You Have Got To Be Fucking Kidding Me, Assweasels, Sexual violence on Feb 24, 2011, 4:14pm | 12 comments

Dear Judge Dewar,

I refuse to call you by the proper title, which includes Honorable, because there is nothing honorable about giving a conditional sentence (no jail time) to a rapist because you felt that the woman’s dress and choice of public behavior was inappropriate. Nor does it signal that “sex was in the air”….and “clumsy Don Juan”?  REALLY?!

You make me ashamed to live in this sad province I already hate.  You make me ashamed of the justice system.  I am ashamed of the attention you are attracting (necessary as it is)  and I feel sorry for any future women who will inevitably end up in your courtroom.  You should be ashamed of yourself.  Justice officials like you are the reason I never reported.

With all due respect, sir, go fuck yourself.  I hope this taints you for the rest of your life.

Sincerely,

MA

12 Responses to “Quick One: Open Letter to Judge Robert Dewar”

  1. Tweets that mention Quick One: Open Letter to Judge Robert Dewar - The Pursuit of Harpyness -- Topsy.com says:
    February 24, 2011 at 5:08 pm

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  2. The Artful Nudger says:
    February 24, 2011 at 5:25 pm

    Hear hear.

  3. Ms. M says:
    February 24, 2011 at 5:57 pm

    What an asshat.

  4. mischiefmanager says:
    February 24, 2011 at 7:39 pm

    With men like this so-called judge, sex is always in the air. And women pay the price.

  5. Kari says:
    February 25, 2011 at 12:56 pm

    Total fuckwit, that one. And it’s heartening to see how universal the outrage has been here in Canadialand.

    His judgement seems to be having the opposite effect of what he perhaps intended. Rather than reinforcing rape culture, people I know with moderate run-of-the-mill rape apologist attitudes (i.e. “She shouldn’t have been doing/drinking/wearing/whatever that “She should be more responsible” etc.) are questioning their own attitudes. It’s a horrifying case and a ludicrous judgement, but the response reassures me that all is not lost for humanity.

  6. ali says:
    February 25, 2011 at 3:17 pm

    i want to do more than just register my horror about this judge…. where can i write to, who can i speak to, how can we STOP this kind of shit for once and for all????

  7. Dannielle says:
    February 25, 2011 at 4:40 pm

    here is his phone number, feel free to call and make it known that this is unnacceptable

    Name Position Department Phone
    Dewar, Robert A. Mr. Justice Manitoba Justice 204-945-3518
    Name Position Department Phone

  8. Marie Anelle says:
    February 25, 2011 at 5:08 pm

    @ali

    Unfortunately there’s not much we can do in regards to this specific judge, but the blogosphere surprisingly lit up about this case. So the more noise, the more awareness I guess.

    Sorry I can’t say something more intelligent, this case still has me in the dumps.

  9. BeckySharper says:
    February 25, 2011 at 10:03 pm

    Note to Ray:

    I know you spent quite a bit of time writing it, but if you’re lurking around waiting for your comment to be approved, it ain’t gonna happen.

    Why not?

    Because you are an ignorant, woman-hating rape apologist.

    Also you need to look up the term “double jeopardy”, because your attempt to apply it to this situation shows you clearly don’t know what the fuck it means.

    Bye now.

  10. Troll Poetry 4: Ballad of the Rape Apologist - The Pursuit of Harpyness says:
    February 26, 2011 at 4:25 pm

    [...] rape do tend to bring the trolls scuttling out from under their bridges, and Marie Annelle’s open letter to odious pro-rapist Judge Robert Dewar was no different. A dude named Ray showed up, and while I deleted his comments, they were so [...]

  11. veganmarcy says:
    February 28, 2011 at 9:45 pm

    Folk activist Malvina Reynolds (aka the lady who sings “Little Boxes”) said it best in her song “The Judge Said”:

    “The judge said “Screw ‘em!
    Boys, you’re only human.
    They brought it on themselves
    By being born a woman.
    Like a mountain’s there to climb
    And food’s there to be eaten,
    Woman’s there to rape,
    To be shoved around and beaten.
    (…)
    violate a woman,
    Your equal and your peer,
    The judge will slap you on the wrist
    And lay the blame on her”

    http://www.lyricstime.com/malvina-reynolds-the-judge-said-lyrics.html

    I’m not sure how similar the Canadian and American systems are for appointing judges but is this something where locals can follow up and either demand his removal or at least make sure he’s not appointed/promoted in future?

  12. Canadese rechter noemt verkrachter ‘onhandige Don Juan’ « De Zesde Clan says:
    March 13, 2011 at 7:12 am

    [...] is van seksueel geweld. Op Facebook eisen mensen zijn ontslag en er circuleren verschillende open brieven aan de rechter om duidelijk te maken dat dit vonnis niet kan. Demonstranten voor de rechtbank waar [...]

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