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	<title>Comments on: Tuesday Teasers: Stuff I&#8217;ve Been Reading on the Internets</title>
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		<title>By: Mackey</title>
		<link>http://www.harpyness.com/2011/12/20/tuesday-teasers-stuff-ive-been-reading-on-the-internets/comment-page-1/#comment-79238</link>
		<dc:creator>Mackey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 00:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@annajcook - thanks for the link roundup.. there were some links to blogs I used to read and hadn&#039;t read in a while, so it was great going back.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@annajcook &#8211; thanks for the link roundup.. there were some links to blogs I used to read and hadn&#8217;t read in a while, so it was great going back.</p>
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		<title>By: annajcook</title>
		<link>http://www.harpyness.com/2011/12/20/tuesday-teasers-stuff-ive-been-reading-on-the-internets/comment-page-1/#comment-79227</link>
		<dc:creator>annajcook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 21:12:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@krismcn why thank you! perhaps I&#039;ll consider reviving the tradition in the new year :) ...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@krismcn why thank you! perhaps I&#8217;ll consider reviving the tradition in the new year <img src='http://www.harpyness.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: krismcn</title>
		<link>http://www.harpyness.com/2011/12/20/tuesday-teasers-stuff-ive-been-reading-on-the-internets/comment-page-1/#comment-79224</link>
		<dc:creator>krismcn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 20:16:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Excellent post, Anna.  I know it&#039;s old school, but I love me a good ol&#039; link round-up.  Thanks for taking the time!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post, Anna.  I know it&#8217;s old school, but I love me a good ol&#8217; link round-up.  Thanks for taking the time!</p>
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		<title>By: annajcook</title>
		<link>http://www.harpyness.com/2011/12/20/tuesday-teasers-stuff-ive-been-reading-on-the-internets/comment-page-1/#comment-79183</link>
		<dc:creator>annajcook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 14:16:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@anon … I am not in the business of defending Schwyzer’s past actions, or the way he frames them. I am not that personally invested in his character, frankly. I’ve been following his online writing for a few years now and sometimes like what he has to say, and sometimes disagree with him (Clarisse Thorn makes a similar observation in her introduction to the interview). I thought the interview with Thorn made for a interesting read. 

I absolutely agree with you (and others here) that his past actions are inexcusable. I read his re-telling of those stories in a different way than you, but I come to them with my own specific lens and I realize there are other ways to understand what he writes. It’s totally your prerogative to avoid reading his work and/or to articulate the ways in which you see him justifying his past actions.

It’s not really my practice to use trigger warnings on links, unless I’m passing along a trigger warning the post author attached to the original post.

@baraqiel ... yeah, I read the Twitter conversation posted at GMP as well, and had a similar response. While I found the original column unoriginal and lazy (generalizing in a gender-essentialist way, as so many others had pointed out), I feel like Matlack only dug himself into a deeper hole as he got increasingly defensive about his original piece. It was one of those times when instead of just not responding to his critics in the moment, or acknowledging their critique, he was immediately &quot;omg I&#039;m being yelled at!&quot; and never really recovered from that to engage in a more adult conversation about the challenges to his thesis.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@anon … I am not in the business of defending Schwyzer’s past actions, or the way he frames them. I am not that personally invested in his character, frankly. I’ve been following his online writing for a few years now and sometimes like what he has to say, and sometimes disagree with him (Clarisse Thorn makes a similar observation in her introduction to the interview). I thought the interview with Thorn made for a interesting read. </p>
<p>I absolutely agree with you (and others here) that his past actions are inexcusable. I read his re-telling of those stories in a different way than you, but I come to them with my own specific lens and I realize there are other ways to understand what he writes. It’s totally your prerogative to avoid reading his work and/or to articulate the ways in which you see him justifying his past actions.</p>
<p>It’s not really my practice to use trigger warnings on links, unless I’m passing along a trigger warning the post author attached to the original post.</p>
<p>@baraqiel &#8230; yeah, I read the Twitter conversation posted at GMP as well, and had a similar response. While I found the original column unoriginal and lazy (generalizing in a gender-essentialist way, as so many others had pointed out), I feel like Matlack only dug himself into a deeper hole as he got increasingly defensive about his original piece. It was one of those times when instead of just not responding to his critics in the moment, or acknowledging their critique, he was immediately &#8220;omg I&#8217;m being yelled at!&#8221; and never really recovered from that to engage in a more adult conversation about the challenges to his thesis.</p>
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		<title>By: baraqiel</title>
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		<dc:creator>baraqiel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 05:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I read the whole thing on GMP and honestly, I was totally mystified by Matlack&#039;s responses on twitter.  It read to me like the guy had a total freak out but maybe I&#039;m biased.  What really got me was his reaction to (Sarah?) telling him that his &quot;women&#039;s suspicion of men  = white people&#039;s suspicion of PoC&quot; metaphor was inappropriate.  How did you read it, Anna?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read the whole thing on GMP and honestly, I was totally mystified by Matlack&#8217;s responses on twitter.  It read to me like the guy had a total freak out but maybe I&#8217;m biased.  What really got me was his reaction to (Sarah?) telling him that his &#8220;women&#8217;s suspicion of men  = white people&#8217;s suspicion of PoC&#8221; metaphor was inappropriate.  How did you read it, Anna?</p>
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		<title>By: anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 01:43:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow, Anna, wtf?! He checked with his lawyer buddies before he posted that to be sure there&#039;d be no REAL consequences to his actions. He compared fucking his ex just after a drug dealer had raped her to a friend accidentally letting a dog out. And it&#039;s all about HIM, how baaaaaad he felt about everything! How dare her &quot;prominent and powerful&quot; parents still hold a grudge!

You could at least put up a trigger warning on that goddamn thing. Because I know I was triggered as hell reading a. a sexual predator and b. a near-murderer lauded as a &quot;feminist,&quot; then seeing everyone who objected to it being silenced and threatened with banning.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, Anna, wtf?! He checked with his lawyer buddies before he posted that to be sure there&#8217;d be no REAL consequences to his actions. He compared fucking his ex just after a drug dealer had raped her to a friend accidentally letting a dog out. And it&#8217;s all about HIM, how baaaaaad he felt about everything! How dare her &#8220;prominent and powerful&#8221; parents still hold a grudge!</p>
<p>You could at least put up a trigger warning on that goddamn thing. Because I know I was triggered as hell reading a. a sexual predator and b. a near-murderer lauded as a &#8220;feminist,&#8221; then seeing everyone who objected to it being silenced and threatened with banning.</p>
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		<title>By: annajcook</title>
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		<dc:creator>annajcook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 21:40:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@Becca, Thanks for sharing that powerful post. I understand where you&#039;re coming from, but I read Schwyzer&#039;s autobiographical pieces and discussion of his past differently from you. He seems pretty consistently clear about what he did in the past NOT being okay, and something he will never be able to revise in a way that would make it okay. Whenever he talks about having sexual relationships with his students, he frames this as not-okay. Similarly, I see that firm framing in this piece you shared about his ex-girlfriend. He is honest about his alcohol and drug abuse, but doesn&#039;t attempt to absolve himself of his actions by saying &quot;I was drunk and high.&quot; I don&#039;t read the piece as &quot;bragging&quot; about what he did.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Becca, Thanks for sharing that powerful post. I understand where you&#8217;re coming from, but I read Schwyzer&#8217;s autobiographical pieces and discussion of his past differently from you. He seems pretty consistently clear about what he did in the past NOT being okay, and something he will never be able to revise in a way that would make it okay. Whenever he talks about having sexual relationships with his students, he frames this as not-okay. Similarly, I see that firm framing in this piece you shared about his ex-girlfriend. He is honest about his alcohol and drug abuse, but doesn&#8217;t attempt to absolve himself of his actions by saying &#8220;I was drunk and high.&#8221; I don&#8217;t read the piece as &#8220;bragging&#8221; about what he did.</p>
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		<title>By: BeccaTheCyborg</title>
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		<dc:creator>BeccaTheCyborg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 17:35:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What I don&#039;t get about Hugo Schwyzer is how he calls himself a feminist when he brags about fucking his students and attempting to murder his ex-girlfriend when she came to him after her rape: http://www.hugoschwyzer.net/2011/01/03/what-you-need-to-remember-what-you-need-to-forget-on-self-acceptance-after-doing-something-truly-awful/]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I don&#8217;t get about Hugo Schwyzer is how he calls himself a feminist when he brags about fucking his students and attempting to murder his ex-girlfriend when she came to him after her rape: <a href="http://www.hugoschwyzer.net/2011/01/03/what-you-need-to-remember-what-you-need-to-forget-on-self-acceptance-after-doing-something-truly-awful/" rel="nofollow">http://www.hugoschwyzer.net/2011/01/03/what-you-need-to-remember-what-you-need-to-forget-on-self-acceptance-after-doing-something-truly-awful/</a></p>
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